{"id":43827,"date":"2018-04-06T14:59:01","date_gmt":"2018-04-06T06:59:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.roblilwall.com\/en-my\/?p=43827"},"modified":"2025-04-29T15:20:03","modified_gmt":"2025-04-29T07:20:03","slug":"do-you-ever-wish-you-had-more-courage-i-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/roblilwall.com\/en-my\/blog\/2018\/04\/06\/do-you-ever-wish-you-had-more-courage-i-do\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you ever wish you had more courage? I do."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-43828\" src=\"https:\/\/www.roblilwall.com\/en-my\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2018\/04\/6-APRIL-600x450.jpeg\" alt=\"Courage\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Aristotle said courage is the most important virtue as it\u2019s the one needed when other virtues are at testing point.<\/p>\n<p>This week is the 50th anniversary of MLK Jr\u2019s assassination. A few years ago, whilst tandeming across the USA with Christine, we visited the Memphis motel-turned-museum where he was shot on a balcony. Holy ground.<\/p>\n<p>In their book \u201cThe Power of Moments\u201d Chip &amp; Dan Heath discuss the cafe \u201csit-ins\u201d that MLK organised: black students sitting in white-only cafes &#8211; resulting in horrendous abuse. The students refused to retaliate, and by taking a beating, they helped change history.<\/p>\n<p>However, the students didn\u2019t find their super-human courage only from the nobility of their cause. Rather, they\u2019d prepared by putting themselves through training, especially in role-plays where they were insulted and slapped by actors. So they developed courage for the real thing.<\/p>\n<p>Research shows that exposing ourselves to scary tests, even in role-play, does actually grow our courage. Thus we shouldn\u2019t just hope to miraculously have courage when the moment demands it. 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