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In the summer holidays when I was a student I had a job as a door-to-door salesman (of kids’ books) in California with Southwestern Advantage<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It was a brutally difficult, but incredibly educational experience – in fact, I sometimes think I learnt more in those few months’ knocking on doors than I did in 4 years’ University!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was recently reminded of one of the powerful sayings they taught us to live by whilst we were out selling:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Life is 10% what happens to you, 90% how you respond”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, this does not quite always hold true, but I do still think it is a brilliant rule to live by much of the time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s also a great rule of thumb when on an expedition, and indeed, when working as a keynote speaker!
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#Mindset<\/a> #Resilience<\/a> #Sales<\/a> #Speaking<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jimmy Fong<\/a> <\/strong>Robin Mukherjee<\/a> <\/strong>Dan Moore<\/a> <\/strong>Rory Vaden, MBA<\/a> <\/strong>Theo Davies<\/a> <\/strong>Rob Salisbury CSP\u2605<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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